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Patreon – iWantClips – Niteflirt

The mooshkz! It’s been a hot minute since I updated here. I have been posting longer entries to my Patreon, which seems to fluctuate between 4-12 members. I also have been moving older Patreon posts to The Archives, because I couldn’t bring myself to delete them. But I have to keep moving content out of the main feed, or it’s unfair to the members who pay a fee every month. Right now there are some vintage, discontinued Femdom hypnosis files in the feed, so get to those before I move them to The Archives. Or wait, and pay more later.

If you haven’t noticed, I opened a store on iWantClips. So far, just uploading my erotic files here and there has lead to some additional income. I notice some names from my Niteflirt customer list on there. So far I like being on IWC enough to promote it a bit. I don’t like that they pay out 65% for daily direct deposit, whereas NF pays out 70%. IWC also has some cute af promotional widgets, but they don’t seem to work quite properly, so I haven’t used them. IWC also needs an affiliate program for “models” who bring in new customers. They have one to bring in more models, but that’s it so far. They also have a phone feature, which is currently in beta testing. It inspired me to bring back the concept of an ignore line. I might make another ignore line for Niteflirt, again. Because why not get paid for just continuing to do whatever the fuck I’m doing while you diddle.

Speaking of beta testing, you might have noticed Niteflirt’s new “chat” feature. I’ve been waiting for this, and was thrilled to learn it’s finally a thing. However, there is a really low, set price per “volley,” that we aren’t yet able to raise. At this time, I find the chat worthwhile for setting up Femdom phone sessions, getting the customer to buy files and tribute, or to have conversations with submissives with whom I already have some history. I am sure as heck not going to text trance or do any type of session that requires me to summon all my Goddess energy for the current set price. NF might allow us to set our own cost-per-volley in the future, but it doesn’t look like it will happen any time soon. Waiting is.

I’m still not quite sure what my next project will be. It’s definitely about time for a new an audio or video file, but I am unclear on topic matter. I love doing femdom hypnosis, but you guys might know about the stupid deal with the credit card companies, and how we can’t even use the word “hypnosis” on most sites that accept payment for material. So I do what I can with the approved terminology, although even those words are being witch-hunted (such as “mind control”). If you want erotic hypnosis nowadays, you might be better off searching for “mesmerize,” “mental domination,” “erotic magic,” “brainwashing,” “mind fuck,” or “trance.” I remember being on a payment platform I no longer use, and they even had to edit the word “trance” to “tr4nce.” I swear, it’s so ridic.

So what will my next project be? I have to find out. Should it be a new lipstick fetish clip? As far as erotic audio goes, the topics I’ve done least recently include tease and denial and general fetish. Can you think of a fetish topic I haven’t yet explored, that you’d like me to? Answer my questions via twitter or e-mail.

Anyway, as per usual, I am most active on twitter, so follow me there, as well as on instagram, where I am somewhat active. Think correctly like good boyz and gurlz, and you’ll make me smile. Which I know you like.

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Sparkly Lips and a Smoke

In celebration of over 5k subscribers to my YouTube channel!

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“Diddlefreak Asylum” Humiliation MP3

Diddlefreak Asylum

Welcome to Diddlefreak Asylum. You have been admitted to this institution because you are a perverted weirdo. You are addicted to porn, and you play with your genitals all the time. You are obviously a sexually abnormal person, and need to be forcibly committed to a private, locked and closed residential treatment facility for incurable compulsive masturbators.

At the Asylum, you will be subjected to an intense, psychologically-invasive brainwashing program, which will include daily, prolonged sessions of tease and denial, erotic humiliation, demasculinization, and mind-fucking.

Because you are such a pervert that you have been forcibly admitted, you are unable to leave the Asylum until the doctors and nurses agree that you are permanently incapable of being a diddlefreak pervert ever again. Of course, we will never agree that you are “fixed,” because our real purpose is to just make everything worse. And you won’t want to leave, even if we were to grant you release. You will not know how to live in the real world ever again; the Diddlefreak Asylum is your new life.

Includes: hypno-programming, intense humiliation, complete orgasm control, orgasm denial, tease and denial, mind-fucking, behavior modification, being institutionalized, being monitored, twisted psychotherapy, bondage, helplessness, degrading punishments, psychosexual experimentation, forced bi, objectification, financial domination, sci-fi elements. 30 mins. for $34.99

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“Thought Obliteration” Brainwashing MP3

Thought Obliteration

Has your mind been in overdrive, lately? Are there a bunch of thoughts going on in your head like way too often? Wouldn’t it be nice to clear all that brainfunk completely the fuck out? Yes, sweetie, it would be DIVINE to get rid of that irritating jumble of congested, cognitive freeways that keeps my poor sweetie from relaxing.

In this brainwashing audio file, I will clear out your mind and turn you into a peaceful dumb-dumb. It’s okay, you can be smart again another time. But for your own good, you must use this brainwashing file at least once per week, in order to have your thoughts obliterated. After each listen, you will feel reset, rejuvenated, and revitalized.

Of course, because this is a Goddess Lycia file, I’ll also make you very horny and desperate to cum.

Includes: femdom brainwashing, thought reduction, thought obliteration, making you temporarily dumb, hypnotic control, mind control, increased sexual arousal, addiction to this file, enslavement to Goddess Lycia, light humiliation, tease and denial. 27 mins. for $29.99

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Pros and Cons of Being an Online Domme (Including Ethics)

Morning is a good time to write.

So I’ve been doing this job for over fifteen years. It kinda blows my mind that it’s been so long. And as the years go by, my income and level of success increases. Of course, it takes a lot (most) of my time. I not only have to keep up with making money in the now, but I also have to continuously plan for the future, working behind the scenes on things that don’t bring immediate income.

When I first began this kind of work online (erotic/fetish/Femdom), I had regular full-time jobs. It took about three years for me to realize that I was making more than enough money to stop going to my low-paying, 40+ hour a week job. I was actually missing out on making money by being at my regular job. And so I decided to work exclusively from home and take classes in my spare time.

As many may have guessed, this job is also a lifestyle for me, and it has its pros and cons. I absolutely love being my own boss and setting my own schedule. One problem with that, however, is that people in my life don’t always understand that just because I make my own schedule does not mean I am available at any time. I’ve read that this is an issue with other types of artists, including authors. Family and friends don’t realize that we actually have to be sitting there writing, networking, marketing, designing websites and graphics, recording, taking calls, interacting with submissives and customers, keeping up with changes in technology, troubleshooting, finding inspiration, and keeping up with both physical beauty and knowledge. We also need time to ourselves, to just reconnect with our core and chill.

Another thing I love about my job is the money. My income used to be low, and I actually didn’t care. I was fine, so long as I had a small apartment, a vehicle to get me around, and enough money for the basics and a few fun things here and there, like makeup and concerts. Even after I was making more money than I knew what to do with, I lived happily as a relatively poor person, accustomed to the adult life I had already been living. Gradually, I moved into a much larger living space and my lifestyle began to include more luxuries. The downside to this is that the more you have, the more you have to lose. I do not think there is another job at this time that would bring me as much money, or even one that I would enjoy as much. I could go back to lower income and be happy, but do I really want to? I am accustomed to my new lifestyle, now.

One of the main benefits of this job, for me, is having a creative and emotional outlet. I have a lot of internal energy that needs a way to release. Before I started this work, I was less balanced; I didn’t know what to do with all the stuff inside of me. I wrote and made art, but it wasn’t erotic, and I had just gone through some major life changes that made me a bit of a basket case. Within the first few times I got paid for presenting myself online, I felt an actual shift in my mood, my confidence, and my overall way of thinking. I felt validated and valued in the way I wanted to feel. I was almost surprised at the level of interest people had in me, and that I was immediately successful. And so I kept going.

And we all know about the judgments people have about adult work, and the misunderstandings. How it is taboo, there are stigmas attached, and we either have to lie about what we do, face a billion personal questions, or be asked to train other people who think it’s easy money. All the people who I am really close with have known what I do since I quit my regular jobs, and they are supportive. With other people, I have to make something up and change the subject. There are some people who I tell right off the bat, if I feel out their energy and know it would be cool. I have definitely wondered (and still wonder) about a more normal life, with a regular job and a husband and kids. It is difficult, I find, to have a healthy, monogomous relationship with someone while devoting most of my time to what I do online. I often feel like I have to be polyamorous and open about it, because I am more accepted by those who are poly.

Another thing that I used to think of as a downside to this job was that, because I don’t have a place that I need to be at a certain time every day (regular job), I have to organize my own schedule/routine. I also found it to be a downside that I do not have anything to force me to be around people every day and socialize. I have spent long periods in isolation, and have had some really messed up sleeping patterns. But nowadays, I actually think it is good that I was essentially forced to find other ways of creating my own routines and making/spending time with friends. It’s been a learning experience.

I still have a bunch of stuff inside me, but now I have a way to get it out, thanks to my submissives and customers. Because I get so much out of this job (mentally, emotionally, financially, and even spiritually), I sometimes wonder exactly what I am giving to my submissives and customers. It’s obviously something, because I’m still making a living. And what I do is more than just help guys orgasm. In fact, one of my specialties is chastity training. At least half the people who call me for phone domination don’t care if they orgasm or not; they just want an experience.

Oh, and the struggle with morals. I have definitely had that, and I sometimes still do. I consider myself ethical, and have had to learn where to draw lines. Some questions I’ve asked myself include, Is it okay to have financial slaves that are married? Will my forms of Femdom hypnosis mess up someone’s head in a bad way? Am I hindering positive progress in people’s lives by using humiliation, encouraging them to be addicted, telling them to stay home and diddle instead of going out and dating or spending more time with family?

One thing that makes me feel better about these questions is that submissives and customers come to me, and pay me for what I offer. I don’t go chasing people down and try to harm their lives. People know what I offer, which includes intense humiliation, mind fucking, brainwashing, sissification, teasing and denial, and financial domination. They find me for a reason, and pay me for a reason. I have been told by a fan that I truly offer an important service. He was a convicted felon who had done time in prison, and he said that my work keeps people off the streets where they might commit more crimes and do more harm in society. People who have this extra energy, this desire and fire, they want to play. They need something “dangerous” to fill a void. And what I do keeps them home at their computer, ipad, or smart phone, where things are actually more safe.

I’ve also had customers thank me profusely for what I do. Hundreds of them. I do not know everyone’s circumstances, but other people also have stuff inside them that leads them to seek out what I offer. Strange as it may seem to some, many people benefit psychologically from letting go of their ego and giving up to the control of another. Fans, submissives, and customers have told me that I inspire them to work harder and take better care of themselves, because I deserve it. I’ve also been told that relationships with family members have improved once they have found me, because there is less resentment in relationships where they are unable or afraid to share who they really are as sexual beings. Instead of feeling depressed and brooding about an isolated sexuality that is outside the conventional norm, they now have a way to release, so they can be in a better mood with their significant others.

People also learn about themselves once they have experienced my sessions. They learn about their own limits, and how to self-monitor. Some people end up diddling themselves sick, and need to take a break. And during that break, they might do something amazing that was building inside them without knowing it. Same thing can happen during consistent service to me. Voids are filled, and voids are recognized. Broken parts are mended, and parts that they thought were in tact might become broken. It’s all a part of some kind of healing and growing process. And we’re in it together.

Is this lifestyle difficult? Yes, it can be. Is it rewarding in ways other than financially? Absolutely. I have chosen this over a more conventional life, and I do not regret it. And I am really grateful that what I naturally want to put out there just happens to be in demand. Sometimes I feel like I am just a conduit, and something that the internet world needs is being channeled through me. It’s interesting to explore the reasons behind why things happen. In the beginning, I didn’t know I would be so well-received. My mind is a bit twisted in a way that isn’t necessarily common for Dominatrices. I’m also not a typical model, physically. But it was kind of like the internet world was waiting for me to appear, because I’ve had continuous success for over fifteen years.

Welp, I have some stuff to take care of, or I could go on writing. I should be around later, and I’m excited to continue to experience life and sexuality with you.


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