This post is inspired by a thread on the Niteflirt forums.
I’ve been doing phone and online sessions for many years now, and definitely have my favorite sorts of Femdom and fetish sessions, as well as the types I enjoy less. Certain factors also make a difference, like my rapport with the customer/submissive, and how much he is spending. So sometimes there will be a type of session I generally really enjoy, but just not with a particular guy. Conversely, there are sessions types I typically don’t enjoy as much, but that I will really enjoy with a particular person. So I am just weighing this stuff generally, you know?
Kay, here I go:
Favorite Sessions
Humiliation phone sessions: And I don’t mean just verbal abuse and small penis humiliation, but also making the guy say and do lots of embarrassing stuff, which I laugh and laugh at. He is ideally a natural submissive (not just “playing the role”), and has a major crush on me. While I get to say funny stuff and laugh at the whole thing, he has to take it all very very seriously. If he laughs, he is distancing himself from his humiliation, which is not allowed during a session. He must feel extremely humiliated, extremely horny, very submissive and obedient, and totally adoring of me as I turn him into some kind of circus freak.
Raise the Rate phone sessions: First off, I love when boyz call my $9.99 per minute financial domination line, even though they often have the option of calling my less expensive lines. But I love it even more when they are so horny giving me money, and they are so addicted to being in my company, that I can keep raising the rate of our call over and over again. They have no choice to keep calling back, even at seemingly ridiculously high per-minute rates, because they are so addicted to the rush. It is utter hotness on many levels.
Erotic hypnosis phone sessions where I have My Way: I like when someone calls for an erotic hypnosis phone session but all they want is for me to do what I want. I like this better than catering to a very specific, particular fantasy. When I have my way, the hypnosis usually involves a very deep trance, addiction and enslavement, and some degree of tease and denial. And I use all my special triggers, and add some new ones, depending on my mood. It does help to know the subjects fetishes and weaknesses, just so I can use them if I choose. But really, I just like paving my own personal path through his mind.
Tease and denial phone sessions: These are especially fun for me if they involve some degree of humiliation. Basically, I enjoy guided masturbation or “JOI” where I edge the sub over and over, teasing him about how much control I have over him and how helpless he is to resist me. I do lots of different things to ensure the sub desperately needs to orgasm, but completely relies on my permission to do so, and I really fuck with his head in the process. It’s quite enjoyable to feel so powerful, and very amusing to witness the suffering of someone who is SO horny but SO unable to release his cummies without my consent.
Okay, now for the other side:
Least Favorite Sessions
Very specific fantasies, where it’s important that I get the details just right or they won’t be able to cum. I get why some people need that sort of thing, but I don’t like the stress of having to create a session that I really don’t “feel,” myself. Like, when I feel like it’s his thing, and I really don’t care about it other than to make the money for the session and hope he feels satisfied by the job I’ve done. I might as well be someone’s masturbation puppet, if I’m doing that. And “masturbation puppet” isn’t really a role I’m interested in. I very much enjoy fulfilling fantasies, but only if his fantasies match mine. If he has to teach me about the fantasy, well then it isn’t mine.
Forced intox findom sessions where they quickly get too drunk to pay. Ugh, I hate going around in circles with a guy who keeps telling me he is about to spend more money, but then can’t remember he said it, or pretends he can’t remember he said it, or can’t find the “send payment” button. Way too frustrating and annoying to deal with at all. And I really do my best to take the alcohol *slow,* in order to avoid this. But they probably sneak more than I am administering, or they were more drunk than I thought when they initially called, or whatever. Just, no.
Guys who hang up on me without saying goodbye. Like, fuck you. Maybe you came without permission. Or maybe you came and then feel suddenly embarrassed about the preceding conversation. Maybe you just want to get off the phone and don’t have the guts to tell me why. Whatever your retarded excuse, do not hang up on me without notice and a polite closing statement, unless you want me to file you in the folder full of boys who I will never actually give a shit about.
Challengers: These are the guys who want to see if I can “get them to submit.” Or they don’t think they can be hypnotized but want me to try as they do their best to fight it. No… I like submissives, mmmkay? Really. Be obedient and compliant, and don’t try to make it a power struggle. If power struggles are what get you off, find another Lady.
That’s all for now, though I am sure I could say much more on the subject of things I like versus things I don’t! I hope it gave you some more insight on me, and whether or not you and I are (or would be) a good D/s fit.
