load-z has been my slave for a while, but we’ve never actually spoken voice-to-voice. He knows I do sessions on Niteflirt, which include Femdom hypnosis, humiliation, sissification, tease and denial, and financial domination, but has not yet called. He asks:
Actually, I am usually very “in it” with my callers. For Femdom hypnosis sessions especially, I need to concentrate. I focus first on the induction, and I kind of hypnotize myself along with the listener.
With most of my calls, regardless of whether or not hypnosis is involved, I focus a lot on the other person. I listen to their voice and the words they use to help put a character in my mind. I prefer to know your general appearance, and I often ask what you are wearing and what position you are in at the start of the call.
Throughout the call I listen to breathing patterns and any moans or groans for feedback. I definitely do most of the talking, but only after I find out what the caller is into and what kind of session he is looking for. Throughout the call, I will occasionally ask questions, and I will sometimes make the caller do and say certain things, depending on the type of training I am doing.
When I am in control, which I generally am during a Femdom phone session, you really should do and say only the things I want to hear. Go ahead and make funny noises, but overall you just need to listen and obey my commands.
Oh, I also sometimes have a notebook with me when I take a call, and I write notes about the guy. Sometimes I will doodle during a call, or do a mixture of notes and doodles, but I’m still concentrating on the call.
Once in a while I get really chatty callers, and those would be the ones I’ll kind of drift on. I mean the ones who just want to keep talking for the whole session. It’s like, hmmm… I am glad you like me, but apparently all you want to do is talk about yourself to me. Like ew. Let me get to know you in the way I want to. At my pace and rhythm.
It’s all different with money slaves who don’t call… the ones who tribute regularly, buy my files, follow me on social media, but never call. Those guys generally get less focused attention, unless they do something to stand out.
Just thought I’d share that.
*kissy*
I’ll be taking calls for a few more hours!